The art of being a dominatrix

The art of being a dominatrix

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As the societies constantly evolved over the centuries, people changed their perception about sexual fantasies or desires, which in return led to the occurrence of different fetishes.  In a previous article, we pointed out a bunch of sexual fetishes and categorized them.  Consequently, in the present article, we aim to focus only on the domination ones, and we would like to highlight how cam girls can act like a genuine dominatrix.   

Choosing the right outfits is one of the most important elements to create the dominatrix look. It is highly recommended to have in your wardrobe a catsuit, which is one of the most iconic garments in the fetish and bondage culture. Your garderobe should definitely contain accessories such as knee-high boots, stiletto shoes, and a corset. These elements will give you a domina specific allure and will make you look like a genuine mistress. In addition, your wardrobe should be characterized by the presence of several other items such as whips, gloves (usually elbow length) and stockings (fishnet or garter stockings), in order to complete your look and to cover a larger pool of requests.  

Even though the exterior aspect is of crucial importance, having the right attitude with your members is paramount! Showing a high degree a self-confidence, for instance, will make your customers understand that you are able to exert power and implicitly to dominate them.  Once you show them who is in charge, you need to plan the ongoing session carefully in order to create the right dominator-dominant relationship. You need to really prove through your gestures or words that you’re a superior to your customers, whereas they are nothing but your amusement toys in most of the cases. Once you proved your supremacy, you should get used to the idea of being called “mistress”, “goddess” or “queen”. You shouldn’t show by any means that such titles are way too much for you, but on contrary, you should aim to make them prove their obedience and devotion.  

Like in every game of power, at some points there will be the case when certain punishments or villain treatments are required. In order to excel at this sort of activities, you need to know your members and to draw some limits. You should be flexible in treatments and to avoid applying the same punishments on different people. For instance, if the guys experience a submissive behavior for years and they are hardcore people, you should feel no mercy and treat them properly. However, if they are newbies you have to know when to stop. Causing way too much pain to an unexperimented guy will scare or intimidate him, leading to his massive dissatisfaction, thus losing the chance of having a new regular member. In this case, it is highly recommended to choose and use a safe word, for example.      

In addition, you should place an important focus on your communications techniques and skills as well.  By making use of the verbal communication, you increase the prospect of taking over control, by offering a way more realistic experience. Consequently, your voice tone should be in a perfect alignment with your attitude. You should be aware that there will be times when using a soft, personal tone is required to satisfy them, or cases when you really need to have a powerful one, or even to shout in order to send the right message. Don’t forget that showing authoritative tone can be very efficient to deliver specific orders!  

If you are new to BDSM practices, you should understand that as the time goes, you might encounter plenty of requests from many cam platform users.  Under these circumstances, you have to become more comfortable with this role play, to research a bit the vast universe of fetishes and to aim to provide qualitative shoes. The more you document yourself and the more time you spend with slaves or submissive people, the more you increase the prospect of earnings, by pleasing a broader range of customers.

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