Working as a cam girl is not that hard, as long as you have the right team to help you and guide you through every single process. Trying to do it on your own comes with the price of figuring it out by yourself, creating your accounts, talking with the right people, knowing what to do and when to do it. And then you have no idea what to talk with members on the sites, you don’t really understand the rules, you won’t be motivated to spend lots of hours online. And I’m telling you all this from experience.
When I found out about what video chat is and how much money I can make, I wanted to try it. But I never thought it could be so easy and so hard at the same time. I had no idea what being a cam girl implies and how much work people put into this job, I thought that you just sit in front of a camera, talk to some people, dance a little and that’s it. Boy, I was wrong!
I’ve tried camming on my own and I didn’t succeed. Why? Because I didn’t have the right motivation, I didn’t have the support I needed nor the knowledge to do this the right way.
Being a part of the Studio20 family is the best thing that happened to me. Having someone there for me when I needed, both professionally and emotionally was the only reason that I succeeded. As the motto of my studio said, we do succeed together.
Starting out without knowing what this job is all about can be difficult but with the right guidance, with the best support and knowledge, you can achieve greatness.
First of all, I learned what discipline is, I understood that following a schedule, being on time, knowing and following the rules makes all the difference. Yes it’s hard to work 8 hours or more per day, it’s hard to get up early in the morning or staying up all night, it’s hard to get used to a strict schedule, to be consistent with your hours online, but it is necessary for your account to grow, to be seen all around the world, to make new members and keep the old ones with you.
Secondly, I understood what being a cam girl is like, trying to leave all your problems behind and just focus on your work. We are human beings, we have problems, issues…but so do the members. And if you decide to become a cam model, you’ll soon realize that it’s like being a psychologist. You’ll have to try to forget about your problems and focus on your members.
They need someone to be there for them, they need someone to listen to their issues, give them advice, treat them like the most important people in the world. They need love, they want that woman that knows how to treat them right, knows what to give them, and knows how to listen and love. You have to love your job to achieve your real potential. You have to care for your members and not treat them like animals. I do have a special bond with each and every one of my members. I don’t love them, you can’t love more than one people at a time. But I do care for them, I see them as my friends, I know that they’re human beings and they love, they have feelings, they need love and I know I can give it to them.
Being a cam girl made me discover myself as a person and as a woman. I used to be shy and I never considered myself beautiful. Having all the members telling me every day that I’m beautiful made my confidence grow. Realizing that everyone is someone’s type, accepting myself for who I am and how I am, may have been the best thing that happened to me.
I now know that I am beautiful and desired, I know that I am a woman and I am powerful enough to be on my own, grow as a person and as a model.
But to become one of the best, you have to improve yourself constantly. I’ve taken English classes to improve my speaking skills, I took makeup courses to know what looks good on me, I’ve started working out and getting my body in shape. I’ve learned to love myself and my body. I show it on camera with every single, and this is the most important thing in camming, feeling good and being yourself, showing your true nature.
All in all…yes…being a cam girl is hard sometimes, but with the right help, you can be the best version of yourself.